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Baby sleep patterns are vital for both babies’ physical and mental development and parents’ mental health. A newborn’s sleep habits change and develop over time. In this process, parents’ patient, consistent, and conscious approach is crucial for establishing a healthy sleep pattern.

How Do Baby Sleep Patterns Develop?

• Newborn Period (0-3 Months):
  • Newborn babies spend most of the day (approximately 16-17 hours) sleeping.
  • Their sleep cycles are short (45-60 minutes) and irregular.
  • They have not yet learned the difference between night and day, so they sleep and wake up at equal intervals throughout the 24 hours.
  • They often wake up (every 2-3 hours) and need to be fed.
  • During this period, babies’ sleep patterns largely depend on their physiological needs.
• Infancy Period (3-12 Months):
  • Sleep cycles begin to become more regular.
  • Night sleep lengthens (approximately 10-12 hours), and daytime sleep shortens.
  • Some babies can start sleeping through the night (5-6 hours) when they are 6 months old.
  • Sleep habits vary depending on the baby’s development, individual differences, and environmental factors.
  • During this period, a suitable foundation for sleep training begins to form.
• Childhood Period (1-3 Years):
  • Night sleep becomes even more regular (approximately 11-14 hours).
  • Daytime sleep decreases and usually drops to a single nap (1-3 hours).
  • Sleep problems, especially nightmares, night terrors, and difficulty falling asleep, can occur.
  • During this period, it is important to maintain a consistent approach to maintain a sleep pattern and solve sleep problems.

What Is Sleep Training and When Should It Begin?

• Sleep Training:
  • Sleep training is a process that aims to teach the baby to fall asleep on their own, sleep through the night, and regulate daytime sleep.
  • Sleep training helps the baby and parents have a better quality sleep experience.
  • Sleep training requires patience, consistency, and the application of correct methods.
• When Should It Begin?
  • The best time to start sleep training is when the baby is developmentally ready, around 4-6 months of age.
  • During this period, babies’ sleep cycles become more regular, and their self-soothing skills begin to develop.
  • However, every baby is different, and determining the best time for sleep training varies depending on the baby’s individual needs, development, and health status.
  • It is important to consult your baby’s doctor before starting sleep training.

Sleep Training Methods

• Cry It Out (CIO):
  • Leaving the baby in bed awake, allowing them to cry, and checking at specific intervals (gradually lengthened).
  • While this method is considered effective by some parents, it can be considered harsh and emotionally challenging by others.
• Ferber Method (Controlled Crying):
  • Leaving the baby in bed awake, checking at specific intervals (gradually lengthened), and providing short-term comfort (stroking, saying soothing words).
  • A gentler approach than the cry-it-out method.
• Pick Up, Put Down Method:
  • Leaving the baby in bed awake, picking them up and soothing them when they cry, and putting them back in bed.
  • This method requires patience, consistency, and long-term effort.
• Chair Method:
  • Placing a chair next to the baby’s bed, comforting the baby (verbally, by stroking) but not picking them up.
  • Gradually moving the chair out of the room, allowing the baby to fall asleep on their own.
• Gentle Sleep Training Methods:
  • Methods that are sensitive to the baby’s needs and provide parental closeness and support.
  • Involves helping the baby fall asleep with methods such as establishing a sleep routine, using white noise, breastfeeding, or bottle-feeding.

Tips for Sleep Training

• Establish a Consistent Sleep Routine:
  • Going to bed at the same time every night and following the same steps (bath, putting on pajamas, reading a book, singing a lullaby, etc.).
  • A sleep routine helps the baby recognize sleep transition signals and relax.
• Provide a Calm and Quiet Sleep Environment:
  • Keep the room dark, cool (18-22°C), and quiet.
  • You can use relaxing sounds such as white noise (hair dryer sound, vacuum cleaner sound, etc.) or lullabies.
  • Ventilate the room and keep the humidity level appropriate.
• Put Your Baby to Bed Drowsy but Awake:
  • This way, they can learn to fall asleep on their own and gain the ability to fall back asleep when they wake up at night.
  • Avoid putting your baby to sleep by rocking, breastfeeding, or bottle-feeding.
• Keep Daytime Naps Regular:
  • Ensure they take the appropriate number (3-4 for 3-4-month-old babies, 2-3 for 6-12-month-old babies) and duration (30 minutes – 2 hours) of daytime naps.
  • Daytime naps affect the baby’s nighttime sleep.
• Be Patient and Consistent:
  • Sleep training can take time and have ups and downs.
  • Stick to the methods you consistently apply.
  • Remember, every baby is different, and sleep habits also vary.

Sleep Problems and Solutions

• Night Wakings:
  • Check if your baby is hungry, if their diaper is wet, or if they are uncomfortable.
  • Gradually reduce nighttime feedings (consult your doctor).
  • Soothe your baby and help them fall back asleep.
• Difficulty Falling Asleep:
  • Review your sleep routine and make it more relaxing.
  • Make sure your baby is tired enough (age-appropriate physical activity).
  • Do calming activities before sleep (reading a book, singing a lullaby).
• Nightmares and Night Terrors:
  • Soothe your baby and make them feel safe.
  • Try to maintain a regular sleep pattern.
  • Nightmares and night terrors are different. During a night terror, the child may appear awake but is actually asleep.